So you've been on a few dates with a man you're 'really into' and in turn, you think he's definitely got the 'hots' for you. Everything's going well and you're tempted to pick up the phone or email him etc etc. Slow down and 'think' before you reach for that phone to call him. When it comes to calling him - you have to retain a bit of mystery - that's a huge part of what attracted him to you in the first place.You might think it completely innocuous for you to ring him (and perhaps if you only do it once you might just get away with it), but generally speaking, it is 'not' good for you to be doing the calling.
Girlfriend listen up. If you phone him and he sounds 'offish' on the phone with you or 'short' with you, you're going to be very upset, annoyed at yourself for calling him in the first place and then your mind will start playing tricks on you as to why he sounded the way he did. You'll start asking questions inside your head like: isn't he interested in me anymore, his friends are more important, is he with another woman, on an on - you could drive yourself nuts with this kind of self inflicted torture.
From his point of view, he could be in an important meeting at work, he could've just had a row with a colleague, he could've just received some bad news - you don't know because you can't see at the other end of the telephone line. So - allow him to call you - not the other way round.
As has been said above, you think that in calling him, this is just an innocent and sweet gesture on your part. Maybe with just one phone call. But, if you persist in calling him, or sending text messages or emails, you are degrading yourself and your value in his eyes. He will see you as much less if you are 'chasing' him and overly available.
You must continue to retain some mystery, as hopefully you have done in the beginning stages of your relationship - only by doing this will he remain genuinely interested and possibly think about you in the longer term. You do not want to jeopardize his feelings toward you by behaving in a demeaning manner with your bombardment of communication with him. If there's any bombardment going on, it should be him to you, not the other way round. Ignore this at your peril.
Hound any man if you must but know for sure, he will 'not' stick around for long. You can literally take someone who was besotted with you at the beginning - because you were intriguing and mysterious - but if you take that away from him, you then just become like any other mortal - his interest in you has gone because you 'threw' yourself at him. If you truly want to keep a man interested in you and build a solid relationship, do 'not' abuse phones and emails and text messaging!